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So, I'm used to being jealous or whatever when I'd see a guy I liked hanging out with another girl or whatever. I'd never felt that way toward a girl I liked, though. Till now.

Grrr! She's straight, dammit! Grr!

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blackcladsatan
Apr. 19th, 2003 01:24 pm (UTC)
::hugs::
banalapercu
Apr. 19th, 2003 03:45 pm (UTC)
If it makes you feel any better, she's not about to get into any sort of relationship soon.
saphriel
Apr. 19th, 2003 03:51 pm (UTC)
Sorry to hear about your frustration, babe. I understand how you feel.
Heck, I get jealous of lots of stuff, certainly not limited to people. Have you ever been jealous of someone's thesis? I have. How about football? I bet a lot of girls would support me on that one. I've also been jealous of card games, cars, computers, legos, rpgs, and sleep. I mean, aren't I more important than all those? :P
Jealousy is silly, and yet it persists. I think it's part of an evolutionary emotional response that we have when activities don't appear to be going in a way that it conducive to romantic/reproductive goals.

Anyway. Guess we'll all just have to cope together. Shouldn't be too bad.
I love you, by the way.
knittinggoddess
Apr. 19th, 2003 04:14 pm (UTC)
I think it's part of an evolutionary emotional response that we have when activities don't appear to be going in a way that it conducive to romantic/reproductive goals.
At least most of us have evolved past the "Urk jealous. Urk kill rival male" evolutionary stage.

Hugs for Steph. Jealousy hurts.
candy_angel_sfl
Apr. 20th, 2003 12:10 pm (UTC)
hmmm yeah i have gotten jealous over a guy... not a girl though. with girls, i think its more a sexual thing with me than emotional.. like i am not looking for a relationship with a woman, so i dont get territorial. if it were my man hanging out with another girl though... i'd get jealous for sure.
(Anonymous)
Apr. 21st, 2003 08:53 pm (UTC)
Honestly, I don't understand the distinction. Maybe I'm just being naive or something, but if I'm attracted to a person and I see them apparently close to someone else, I get jealous. It doesn't matter whether the person I like is male or female. I guess that's what that one quiz meant when it said I'm "concurrent bisexual". Either way, though, it's still a sucky feeling. 'Cos you're like, "I wish I could be that person my crush is hanging out with", and that often progresses to "What's wrong with me that my crush isn't hanging out with me?" which is never any good. So don't go there, sister! There's nothing wrong with you, she's just silly not to appreciate how wondermus you are. I say so, dammit (so you have to believe me)!

~me :*
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